The question that can come up here is "How far are you willing to go for the things you want?" People can be more inclined to set definitive values on items determining worth. We're also more likely to have benchmarks for acceptable progress in our personal relationships or when we're doing activities. It's very much a mindset that if "I don't get to X point, this is insufficient", and anything insufficient right now might as well be worthless.

The real challenge is that most things aren't going to meet our parameters for success or worth. We're always going to be aiming a little higher than what's possible. Those who can break free of these "make or break" points (most of which will be arbitrary and self-defined) are going to be much better off. This is one of those charts where any progress in the right direction is still progress. So don't talk yourself out of a good thing. Be reasonable and things will tend to work out for you. Best of luck.

Bud

Other people will have a tendency to drag you out of your comfort zones. This can be done in a way where you will quickly have to assess where your boundaries are - if you don't drag your feet a little bit, you could get swept off into something you really don't approve of. Testing some new waters could be good for you to an extent, in that it will open you up to new possibilities. But you don't want to get into anything that conflicts with who you are as a person or challenges your character.

...Show some Love...