There are those times in life where you kind of have to suck it up and do something difficult because you know it's the right thing to do. This is one of those times. The general nature of the energy can be very compassionate and caring (almost too much so at times), but that can also lead to some situations that make life a little more difficult. When you extend yourself to others, in a way, you're also extending yourself to their problems, which in turn can become your problems.
It's wise to know when you should stay out of things, but this is when you want to do that when others are capable of handling things on their own, especially when the experience they'll gain will benefit them in the long run. But many situations others might be going through need a helping hand and you should try to extend that whenever you're able. Everything will be easier dealt with when there's support structures in place. And the same extends to you as well. Don't be too prideful to ask for assistance when something seems a bit too big to take on by yourself. You'll find others can help reduce the load you're feeling, allowing you the ability to get some hard things off your plate. When people come together to solve problems, a lot more can get done than you'd realize. Best of luck.
You might be more impelled to spend money and use your resources right now, but it's very important you know what you're getting. You might have some illusions of this in your mind, but the reality might not be as rosy. This is where doing things like reading reviews and seeing how other people approached a situation can be beneficial to you. It allows you to see down the road, without having to go over all of the bumps and turns that others struggled with along the way.
...Show some Love...