The question that can come up here is "How far are you willing to go for the things you want?" People can be more inclined to set definitive values on items determining worth. We're also more likely to have benchmarks for acceptable progress in our personal relationships or when we're doing activities. It's very much a mindset that if "I don't get to X point, this is insufficient", and anything insufficient right now might as well be worthless.

The real challenge is that most things aren't going to meet our parameters for success or worth. We're always going to be aiming a little higher than what's possible. Those who can break free of these "make or break" points (most of which will be arbitrary and self-defined) are going to be much better off. This is one of those charts where any progress in the right direction is still progress. So don't talk yourself out of a good thing. Be reasonable and things will tend to work out for you. Best of luck.

Bud

There's a possessiveness to this energy that can seep into your personal relationships with others. You are more prone to jealousy or trying to be controlling of those around you (especially in your romantic relationships). You've got to give others a little more room to breathe here and have some faith that they're not going to do something you're not going to like. The more pushy you are about things, the more they're going to rebel anyway.

...Show some Love...