One of the things people can struggle with at times like this is "the way things are vs. the way things should be". People tend to be guided by logical progression more often than not, which allows for concepts like justice, morality and destiny, amongst others, to exist. We see things happen around us, and project what is supposed to happen from that.
However, the universe doesn't operate on these straight-shot timelines and rationales we put together. It can be more chaotic than that. This is life - if we could predict everything, it would be boring. However, when life throws us a curveball we aren't ready for, particularly one that puts us in a rough spot, we often factor in the flipside, what we thought should have happened, when we process it. This might help out quantum you, but it ain't doing anything for this you.
As such, this is a time where we have to accept things as they are, as they happened, and that's the baseline for what we should do next. There's no rewind button to hit in most of life's situations, so don't bother looking for it. Look ahead to the future and what you can do with it. Maximize that - it's far more productive than wondering about what could have been. Best of luck.
Bud
You'll have a good amount of influence over how others perceive you here. This could be a great time for building relationships. It also could be a great time for building rivalries and making enemies. That's all going to depend on how you relate to others and whether you're being selfish or helpful. You can operate in a supportive role in a lot of situations and that's a good way to build rapport with others. If you are taking on quite a bit in helping on that end though, don't be afraid to reach out yourself to get some things off your chest and reduce any stress you might feel.
...Show some Love...