The question that can come up here is "How far are you willing to go for the things you want?" People can be more inclined to set definitive values on items determining worth. We're also more likely to have benchmarks for acceptable progress in our personal relationships or when we're doing activities. It's very much a mindset that if "I don't get to X point, this is insufficient", and anything insufficient right now might as well be worthless.

The real challenge is that most things aren't going to meet our parameters for success or worth. We're always going to be aiming a little higher than what's possible. Those who can break free of these "make or break" points (most of which will be arbitrary and self-defined) are going to be much better off. This is one of those charts where any progress in the right direction is still progress. So don't talk yourself out of a good thing. Be reasonable and things will tend to work out for you. Best of luck.

Bud

You're going to want to stand out amongst your peers today, but be careful that you don't end up overdoing it. At times you're prone to "hero complex", where you want the respect and admiration of everyone around you. But this more often than not causes you to force things you wouldn't normally do and put yourself in bad situations where you might potentially be "the hero". Simply being your best in normal situations might not be as glamorous, but it's also not rash or risky with the potential for things to go sideways.

...Show some Love...