One of the things people can struggle with at times like this is "the way things are vs. the way things should be". People tend to be guided by logical progression more often than not, which allows for concepts like justice, morality and destiny, amongst others, to exist. We see things happen around us, and project what is supposed to happen from that.
However, the universe doesn't operate on these straight-shot timelines and rationales we put together. It can be more chaotic than that. This is life - if we could predict everything, it would be boring. However, when life throws us a curveball we aren't ready for, particularly one that puts us in a rough spot, we often factor in the flipside, what we thought should have happened, when we process it. This might help out quantum you, but it ain't doing anything for this you.
As such, this is a time where we have to accept things as they are, as they happened, and that's the baseline for what we should do next. There's no rewind button to hit in most of life's situations, so don't bother looking for it. Look ahead to the future and what you can do with it. Maximize that - it's far more productive than wondering about what could have been. Best of luck.
Bud
The things you do today are going to have a long lasting impact on how people perceive you. Most of your decisions should be made with a mind to how it's going to impact your overall reputation with others, especially in business and career areas of life. If you do things that cause others to think you're unreliable, they aren't going to want to work with you. It might be a time where you have to take on some more difficult tasks to demonstrate that you're capable of handling more than others think you can.
...Show some Love...